Response to Teandra's week 4 Eureka Moment

Now i don't have any children but i do believe that when you have your first child it is difficult to go back to work after maternity leave. When you get used to spending every waking moment with you newborn it is hard to be away from them even for a couple hours a day. She is right to be worried or concerned about the care of her baby but its not because the babies father is a bad father its because she is used to doing it all herself. I know i am one of those people that likes to do as much as i can myself, i dont like to ask for help. The one thing i do know is that when my first baby is born when i have to return to work i would love nothing more than for my babies father to watch his child. Most men are great fathers they just do things differently than the mother would. The problem today is most men work a lot to support their families and they dont really get the chance to stay home and spend time with their newborns. I think its great that her husband is going to get some time to watch and care for the baby and i also believe that we dont give enough credit to fathers as we should!!! They can be really great fathers if the mother lets them be!